Remember “Austin Powers” and the “Little Me” character.
Its funny but a very real programming that many try to instill on others.
We must be “them” centered‚ not “I” centered.
We can’t make them into us‚ and we harm them if that is what we are trying to do.
We serve others in a real way‚
And that helps us that “what comes around‚ goes around” truly happens.
So I don’t have to force it and make people change into me!